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Here are this week’s Top 3 Comments of the Week!!

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  • “I was always the girl that said that I would never have sex until i was married, but in January, my boyfriend and I decided to have sex. We had been going out for 6 months. I was his first, and he was my first. He told me that people shouldn't have sex because it's fun. They should only do it for love, so I started thinking wow, I guess he really does love me. He had been talking about how he wanted to get married and spend the rest of his life with me, even though we were only 14. I was stupid enough to believe him. In March, I went to buy condoms for us, because his friend told us that we had to stop using his and buy our own. We only ended up using 2 of them. The next week was spring break and I had to go to my grandma's house. My boyfriend was at a party and started hanging out with one of his ex-girlfriends. He started liking her. His friend got mad at him and told him that he had to choose between me and his ex, because he didnt want my boyfriend to start cheating on me. So, he decided to leave me for his ex. That's when I regretted ever doing anything with him. Since he was my first, it was really hard to let him go. He tried really hard to get me back, and after 3 weeks, I finally gave in. I probably shouldn't have, but I did. Even though we're back together, it doesn't change the fact that I regret having sex with him. Now I don't believe anything he tells me. He can tell me that he loves me all he wants, but I still don't believe him. So, if you are in a relationship, and you're thinking about having sex, you should really think about it hard before you make your decision.” – Anonymous
  • “I'm so glad I have decided to not have sex before marriage, there are at least a dozen girls in my school who are already pregnant, if I was in high school then it would be more expected, but there are only three grades in my school, 5th, 6th, and 7th. I've heard my friends talking about the girls who are pregnant, it's horrible, and I'm sure that those girls are very regretful from all the hurtful things people have said about them.” – Kelly
  • “I’m fourteen, a few months ago, i decided to take a step, and that was sex. When this happened, it was the biggest mistake, of my life. And I lost something i will never be able to get back. I was and still am way too young to be doing anything with such big consequences. Well, I was so madly in love with a guy, had such low-confidence, and was willing to do anything to keep this guy in my life. It ended up, having sex was what he wanted, and all he wanted. We did not use a condom, and surprisingly after reading this, it's not my biggest regret of this situation. I was used, and then dropped. , I am still not able to get over this guy, we don't talk anymore, he hates me. Sadly, I'd still do anything to be close with him again. I'm not over the situation, and still am upset. So if you’re a teen, especially me. I was only thirteen years old. , I wasn’t ready and I'm so emotionally attached, I just can't move on. I have decided to not have sex before marriage.” - lucy.
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