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  • i think things that wreck a relationship are obviously, cheating. another is DISHONESTY! one way dishonesty wrecks a relationship is if the person is not honest about where they are, what they are doing, or who they are with. another way dishonesty wreck relationships is if one of the people is starting not to like the other person. if you are starting to get mixed feelings, tell the person!!! yea it will hurt at first but not telling them and having them find out some other way not only kills the bf/gf relationship for sure, it most likely kills any chance of a friendship outside of dating - Matt
  • ..i have seen a few things that wreck relationship and have ruined quite a few...first is controlling others. You have to trust them. I am not saying trust the unworthy but don’t make someone pay for another's choice. then obsessing and saying i love you to every guy just because they are you boyfriend. i have heard and understand that some people wont be there in the end. make the relationship an overall friendship. cheating. We all know this one. it is a dead give a way that a relationship is wrecking or wrecked. neglecting them…i have to say if u don’t spend a decent amount of time with them. if you don’t give them the attention they want, they will get it from somewhere else. that is usually a sign to break up one of you are going to get hurt. My biggest issues are trusting, opening up, and letting go. All of these have caused me pain in the past. I was so scared that i would feel broken again so i locked everyone out by the time I was ready to open up. My boyfriend (now..current) got over it...didn’t forget but moved on. He remained my friend. I didn’t trust him and that’s the one thing he asked for. I couldn't give that. Also, i didn’t want to let go of the hopes and feelings I had for other. I kept hoping they would come back. I went through a relationship where my ex left and came back several times. I always took him back. i was use to it. The friendship and relationship that I have now is new to me. But he is understanding. i know he will always be there even if its only as a friend. That more than i feel i should ask of him. I know we may not last forever but ill always have a best friend. Just to let every girl out there like me know its okay to trust sometimes and you have to break that habit or you will miss out on a lot or end up hurt. .HE is OUT THERE.. - lyndsey
  • I believe that what wrecks relationships is not sharing your feelings. I have that problem. I often get mad for things my b/f does but i don't tell him right away. I always wait until he notices how i feel and that is because i start treating him bad. He tells me that if i tell him how i feel right away, we can prevent the fights. I know he is right but i just can't do it. help please. If there is anyway you can respond via e-mal i would appreciate it very much. -selene.
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