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Dawson's Blog
Here are this week’s Top 3 Comments of the Week!!
Comment on Dawson’s latest blog and check back next week to see if yours has been chosen as a Top Comment of the Week!
- Hey Dawson~ There are a few things that I tell my brother NOT to look for in a woman. I tell him to look for an independent woman, not someone who is always broke and needing him to pay for EVERYTHING. Those are the kind of girls who turn out to be gold-diggers. He needs a woman who can take care of herself and doesn't need a man to take care of her. Also, I tell him that if a woman sleeps with him on the first date then she has probably done that with every guy she has been with. And never be stupid enough to believe the very common line given by a lot of women..."I don't usually do this on the first date, but I really like you." That has slut written all over it!! Look for a woman who treats you with respect and who seems genuinely honest. Never date a woman who has like 3 kids all by different daddies. That means that she doesn't even respect herself. My brother has had a run of bad luck with women. Actually, he has never dated a WOMAN or LADY, just little girls. The last one he dated had 2 kids by 2 different guys and he got her pregnant. She tried trapping him. Turned out that the baby wasn't even his! Looking back now, he is thankful because she was a slut and she mentally abused him. She had no respect for him at all. So to all you sisters out there- look out for your brother and don’t let him be with some scandalous girl!! - Tara
- Teenagers and others as well have been taught through experiences and the public that love and relationships are the "socially" acceptable way to fit in. I have tried since my brother was able to have a conversation with me how to treat a girl and what to look for in them. The girls to avoid are the ones who need constant attention that maybe they aren't getting at home. They might resort later to lying or starting fights just to be paid attention too. The needy girls are the worst. Never go out with a girl who has major insecurities about herself because it will just lead to control and you might think you can fix her problems. The truth is you can't. Drugs, violence, family issues, alcohol etc. are personal problems. I’ve known some guys to go out with girls or become friends with girls to "help" them and get them through this. But throwing yourself into a relationship with that person and relying on yourself to fix everything is not healthy and will end up making you emotionally and physically exhausted. Any girl that can make you feel guilty about yourself or that can manipulate your thoughts of who you are is not worth it. Promiscuous girls are not worth it at all as well as the insecure. Girls that constantly on the look out for a new boy to hook up with or when first brought into a relationship are ready to give themselves away are not the type I would want my brother to date. The girl has to be confident in her ideals morally and spiritually, and be able to stand on her own two feet without needing that kind of attention from random guys. I would want my brother to date the girl who doesn’t always have to impress anyone, who is comfortable being herself and not so insecure to fall into the trap of peer pressure and example. - Kristen
- When i look for girls i have in mind some character traits that i'm looking for in them, like if their nice, respect other people, didn't cheat on previous boyfriends. also most of the time the popular girls are the ones i usually stay away from cause they're the ones that tend to "get in trouble" more than others. if my brother was dating girls i would tell him to first make some friends that are girls and find out how they are & then choose U know which one he'd like to start dating. dating is a process that should be dealt with carefully. – Romero
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